That’s abuse.

 

If he’s INTRODUCING you to illicit sex based off of what he’s seen in porn videos, from guy talk or what he thinks he’s learned about the female body based on some “light-reading” that can help him figure out how to manipulate/control your body, that is wrong too.

 

My 💔heart is grieved at the level of submission Women of God have been taught to endure in their own bed based off of someone else’s perverted perception of submission or their bonafide dysfunction.

My 💔heart is also grieved at the level of perversion wreaking havoc in the bedrooms of faith-filled women, who are crying silent tears, simply because they’ve been told "the marriage bed is undefiled."

Out of context you can make anything right!

 

BUT at the rate some believers are going, you won’t be satisfied until you put a real life DOG in your bed and sorry folks, that is wrong!

One of my best friends growing up has a certified counseling practice that focuses in on getting CHRISTIAN MEN delivered from porn.

She lives in Dallas and told me years ago, what an epidemic it is.

However, until our male leaders really begin to STAND FOR GOD in the bedroom we will continue to see HAPPY MEN and MISERABLE WOMEN, yep in the body of christ for this reason and many more.

I know this will be too much for some folks, but for those who need to hear and see this, may this post serve as a 
WAKE UP CALL and CONFIRMATION!

Or whatever it needs to be for you and yours to truly get delivered and get FREE!

Allow me to add this point of clarity: Orgasms are great and should be mutual in a marriage bed. But if you’re reaching your climax every time and I’m feeling violated, there is a PROBLEM. It's TIME to Deal with it!

HEBREWS 13:4 Marriage should be honored by all and the marriage bed kept undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers.
© 2019 Dwann Holmes Rollinson